say that the first impression is the last impression. Therefore
it is very important that when you meet your potential date
your appearance, body language, profile should be perfect.
Whatever you do should be distinctly unique and fascinating.
Following tips will come in handy for making the impressive
Just play it cool. Don’t panic and try to be yourself.
People are perceived as more attractive when they are having
a good time.
Remember a smiling face is what people want to see. So don’t
go on a date with a serious face. A serious face gives all
the wrong impressions, so keep smiling.
3. Don't knock
yourself out trying to be clever.
Whatever you do please don’t try to hard to show something
that you are not. You might just be making a fool of yourself.
4. Be less-than
Don’t try to show that you are Miss Perfect. Be careful
not to praise your many virtues to the point of boredom, or
even suspicion. No one can be that perfect. Your minor faults
and charming inconsistencies make you human, interesting and
5. Avoid sending
up red flags.
Don't whine, complain or drivel on about any problems in your
life. Refrain from casting yourself in the role of the victim
or the depressed soul. Be positive and optimistic. Chaos,
depression and drama aren't attractive attributes.
6. The eyes
As they say "The eyes are the window to the soul."
Thus while you are talking to your date look into his eyes
while talking and listen deeply and intensely. Pay attention
to your date and don’t look off to the side or at another
7. Say it with
What you say may not be as important as how you say it. Play
with language. Be smart and creative.
8. Use the
A slight touch of the hand conveys a lot. So when you shake
hands make the grip firm and confident. It’s also fine
to reach out and give a casual pat on the first date. If he
is interested in you he will also touch you back.
While clothes don't make the man (or woman), no one wants
to appear shoddy or unkempt. Comb your hair, brush your teeth,
slap on that coat of lipstick, and don't wear clothes with
holes, even if you're just going to the grocery store. Men
like women who know how to take care of themselves.
Just as good posture shows confidence, slouching or standing
with your arms folded across your chest sends an insecure
message. Arms that are out and away from you convey that you
11. Be yourself.
This is most important. Don't say you're a vegetarian if you
really eat meat. Don’t try to do something just because
you want to impress your date. Be sincere and truthful.
12. Close with
Lastly make the other person feel that you had a great time.
Offer your hand for a shake and say with assurance (not necessary
if the date was a disaster), "It's been nice talking
to you. Lets meet up again and do something great together."
This will definitely leave your man wanting for more.