Pregnency & parenting
Subject : Infertility
Question : I was diagnosed with a condition last year which means i cant carry children myself, i was just wondering what others opinions on surrogacy and adoption are...I also need my boyfriend to tell his parents about it before we get engaged but he says it's nothing to do with them, what should i do?
Posted by : Neeta
Posted on : 2003-01-28
Reply : I think you should talk to your boyfriend as life is hard once married and if there is no child after a year, they will all blame you in the long run.
From : Nayyer
On : 2005-01-06
Reply : hi, deaér friend ....just keep on..me too i'm following treatment for having a baby after 5 years of marriage..my husband don't want to turn to adoption..take care of you.
From : marie anne
On : 2004-09-10
Reply : hello Neeta..i am sorry to hear this...but what Menal says is 100% correct.... better talk to u r future inlaws...if at all they say no...doesnt matter u can go ahead with u r present boyfriend and future husband. so that u will not be blamed....life before marriage is differnet and after marriage is different....after wards u r future husband may not support u( i just caution u)
From : vijaya
On : 2004-03-01
Reply : I think u should not talk to his parents abt this matter b coz ur bf has no problems. So u should leave this matter on God, definitely if it would be in ur luck and why u should not go to a lady doctor to get rid from it at time.
From : tahirjamal
On : 2003-12-20
Reply : I think u should not talk to his parents abt this matter b coz ur bf has no problems. So u should leave this matter on God, definitely if it would be in ur luck to have child God will give u by any miracle, otherwise u would lose ur bf.
From : Sheeza
On : 2003-04-10
Reply : Well i think that it is very important that you discuss this issue with your to-be husband and in-laws at lenght in order to eliminate all future problems. after all u will be part of your husbands family and no matter what he says it is your duty to let ur in-laws know the truth because you never know what complications may creep up. Regarding having children of your own that will not be a problem because science is so advanced that even if you are incapable of conceiving u can still have your own baby. for that you will have to consult a doctor speciallised in this field and you can also adopt. but everything will need co-operation and understanding of your husband to-be and in-laws. so first thing talk with your them and then after you marry consult a specialised doctor and have faith.
From : Menal
On : 2003-02-27
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